Once-in-a-lifetime Pursuits

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Over the years, I have imaged myself in certain scenarios that I think would bring me the most joy, fulfillment, and satisfaction. These are the items that I currently have on my Bucket List.

Traveling abroad

    The places I most want to visit right now are Nepal, India, Bhutan, Tibet, Vietnam, Japan and Taiwan. I have been to Asia twice (a month and a half in Sichuan province, China and ten days in Chiang Mai, Thailand) and both times I have really cherished my time there.

    Publishing my writing

      I have always had a knack for writing and envisioned myself traveling the world and writing about my experiences. In the past several years I have also started to want to write a book about my life. Maybe it won’t be a memoir, maybe it will be more focused on travel and philosophy and personal development. I don’t know, it’s still in the works.

      I have a habit of journaling often, and generally just wanting to write things down when they happen. Lately I have been using this blog as my platform, and it has been a lot of fun.

      Enrolling in a graduate degree program to study (Buddhist) Philosophy

      I loved my time as a philosophy major. I’m planning on writing a post soon about my life as a Philosophy major after graduation, because my Alma Mater (UMass Boston) invited me to campus this coming Fall to talk about that very subject with undergraduate students. I want to prepare what I’m going to say.

      Unfortunately, I didn’t enroll in grad school right after graduation because my grades were not good enough. I was also not in the right headspace at the time – I was very caught up in personal pursuits and experiencing more of what life had to offer. Yet, eight years later I am still finding lots of enjoyment from school, studying, researching and writing. I know that academia is more than that, and there is lots of competition involved, but I can’t shake the excitement that comes from the thought of professionally studying a subject I love.

      One thing about Buddhist philosophy is that learning isn’t confined to a classroom, or to a textbook. This is what I want to tell the students at UMass Boston. Since my interest in Buddhism has developed, I have learned more about the nature of reality from my own practice and experience than I was able to in school, or from reading Buddhist literature. Thankfully, there are countless retreat centers and monasteries around the world that offer more opportunities for me to learn, and I would derive great satisfaction from taking advantage of those kinds of opportunities.

      Working with children (again)

      When I traveled to China, my partner and I thought that we would be volunteering on a farm (because we signed up to stay with a host from WWOOF). When we got there, we found out that the help our host really needed was with the students at his English school. My partner and I quickly transitioned to being volunteer English teachers and thoroughly enjoyed it.

      When I returned from China, I wanted to continue working with children (especially because some of the classrooms I had taught in abroad really rubbed me the wrong way). I worked temporarily as a substitute teacher at a Montessori school and an assistant teacher at a Montessori school. I have fond memories of working with children and would love to continue that type of work, though it would have to be as a volunteer or assistant teacher because I do not have the proper credentials to do anything more, and frankly don’t desire to have that type of career. I love being around children, and I want to be a strong role model for them.

      I was thinking of combining all of these interests by traveling to Asia, volunteering as an English teacher at a preschool there, writing about my experiences, while simultaneously attending classes at a Buddhist university. Do you think I could do it?

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        1. Laura Santos Avatar

          Of course you can do it! And you should, while you can. Life puts so many limits on us from all different perspectives. Do what you want when you can, you may not get the opportunity again! Carpe diem!

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